When you struggle with relationships in your family or at work, part of the cause may lie in issues that we carry over from current and past generations. This is an unconscious process that already starts at young age.
Systemic family constellations help you to identify these connections and to break free from entanglements in your family. Over one million people in Europe and the United States have benefited from systemic work.
It is our mission to create more awareness in Asia on the strength and the influence of systems. Read more


How do Family Constellations work?
If you have an issue that you want to work on, you can best join a workshop. Our facilitator helps you define the most relevant people or aspects involved in your issue, and you can place representatives for them in the room.
The representatives can just be other people who join the workshop, without any prior knowledge. When placed relative to each other, they typically start experiencing feelings or want to make movements. The facilitator will guide this process to get the most information out of the setting or suggest changes in the constellation that may translate to everyday life.
Join our new workshops on 17 and 24 January 2027
On Sunday 17 and Sunday 24 January 2027, from 1.30 till 5.30 pm, Hendrik de Ruiter will facilitate two new Family Constellation sessions in Central Singapore. You can join the workshop as a general participant to experience the work, and there are limited spots per workshop to bring in your own issue and do a constellation with it. Register now
If you issue is too sensitive to share in a group, you can also first do an individual session with Hendrik de Ruiter in the days before the workshop. Book a slot


Our lead facilitator: Hendrik de Ruiter
Hendrik de Ruiter is a certified senior facilitator in Systemic Family constellations and a Master Practitioner in Neuro Linguistic Programming. Hendrik has conducted hundreds of family and business constellation in the Netherlands and in Singapore. He also coaches in a one to one setting.
He encourages his clients to understand and address the fears, obstacles and stories that interfere with joyful living and passion, and incorporates systemic techniques that focus on both mind and body awareness to allow for deeper and more integrative healing of personal issues.
More about systemic work
Both family and organisation constellations are based on the idea that we are all part of various systems: our family, school, work, even the traffic or the gym. All these systems have generic laws, and if these laws are not respected, things start feeling awkward.
Constellations are a way to make this visible: not what you say or think, but what you and others feel unconsciously is being on display. Read more
Systemic work can also be applied in business settings. Read more

Questions? Please contact us on info@systemicwork.com